Is It Ever Really Possible To Make Someone Fall In Love With You?He was really tall. We had this stupid conversation about the worst household jobs, and I said it was taking out the food bin and he said it was pulling hair out of the drain. When our knees brushed under the table it felt like I’d been punched in the gut. I liked him so much. So, of course, a few days after we met, I found out that he’s going travelling for six months.
Friends tend to appeal to fate in these circumstances. They tell you “what will be will be” and “what’s yours will find you”. And, I get it, there’s something soothing in outsourcing the problem to a higher power, to let ourselves imagine that there’s someone else taking care of it and that we can sit back and relax and wait for the inevitable.
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